Thursday 7 April 2011

I want to start some bondage with my partner, I have a few ideas and would like some more?

Question by Silvertongue: I want to start some bondage with my partner, I have a couple of suggestions and would like some more?
I was thinking a little role-play interrogation
Utilizing ice and candle wax
blindfold and rope
and a crop

i would like a whole list of stuff to select from please and thank you.
i know all the rules ...chill. I am not going for the entire dom/sub thing. our secure word is pickle. As for the wax i know how to use it


Greatest answer:

Answer by JAMES K
Candle wax can hurt extremely badly since there are some waxes that melt at greater temperatures than others and retain heat longer. Consult with an experienced person for the finest ones. This is not for a newbie to commence out on.
Bear in mind, constantly test on your self prior to utilizing on your partner.
Rope is great, but not too tight.

Remember these rules:
1: If standing, untie the feet very first. Always make sure your partner is on firm footing before undoing any other people.
2: By no means too tight. If your partner feels a limb 'go to sleep', untie Immediately!
3: By no means AROUND THE NECK! EVER!
4: Plastic ties are not for you. They have to be cut off and you might not discover the scissors in time.

When acquiring handcuffs, do not use police issue ones, they are hard to get out of in an emergency. Think modest hole and shaking hands (or lost key). There are child play cuffs that are exceptional. They consist of a little lever on the side push it down and the cuff opens. Attempt a department store in the toy section or a magic store.

Using a crop, do not hit fast. A two to 3 foot crop can reach impressive speeds on the striking tip, can cut into the skin, even if you do not hit tough. Strength plus speed is the formula, you can't ignore either factor.

Now the ultra-essential topic of Safe WORDS:
Agree on words that mean 'ease off', 'more', 'stop now'.
There are some typical ones:
'Mercy' means 'keep it up but not as hard'.
'Mercy Master/Mistress' indicates 'stop *now* and untie me'.
or you can use visitors signals.
'Green' means 'keep it up, this is fun' or 'I can take more'
'Yellow' indicates 'I'm approaching (or at) my limit'.
'Red' indicates 'Stop, game over, I'm accomplished!'

If gagged, agree on an unnatural sequence of sounds that mean 'ungag me'. Possibly humming a song.

A universal rule of all who are in the scene: If an individual does not respect the Safe Words, that individual is banned and will by no means get a scene again.

Trust is the key. If the top can't be trusted, the bottom requirements to look elsewhere.



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