Saturday 10 March 2012

bondage is it wrong and why are people into it?

Question by John Mayberry: bondage is it wrong and why are folks into it?
You see girls in video and photographs tied up hog tied or spread eagle to were thier tickled and shriek of laughter especially on thier feet. What is up with that?


Finest answer:

Answer by grayselegy
Can not see why it would be wrong, so long as each parties consent. The tickle impluse depends on not being able to manage the stimulus - you cannot tickle your self, as you anticipate it. Element of the attraction to the bondee is the loss of manage more than what takes place subsequent, the attraction to the bonder is having ultimate control more than somebody else. So lengthy as these are fantasies they are secure enough. Like anything, take it as well far and it becomes poor because the element of consent is removed. Bondage becomes torture, sex becomes rape, flirting becomes harrassment, wrestling becomes violence and so on. OK, so we all know exactly where the limits are, and who hasn't mock-wrestled their partner, or tickled their kid? Bondage is just an extension of that behaviour, and folks do it because it feels...well, exciting, if not entertaining. If you haven't tried tying up your partner and tormenting her/him by tickling their feet, or indeed other parts, then you are missing out on some wonderful and harmless fun. I had a girlfriend as soon as who enjoyed it far more than I did, even though I was constantly happy to oblige. I think she was so considerably in manage of her life at all other times, that having a time when she lost control, in both senses of that phrase, was extremely fulfilling to her. On a separate note, I try to steer clear of videos of such behaviour. You in no way know how staged they are anyway - I hope the ladies get paid for exposing themselves that way at the least - and the element of consent seems dubious at very best. If you can't be confident the individual is fully consenting in the video, then you are truly colluding in a crime and it is definitely voyeuristic and morally doubtful. On the other hand, I am certain most couples will have engaged in a small light bondage at some time, and if they have not...then they must !



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