these days i was round my boyfriends and i had a scarf and he wanted me to blindfold him and he mentioned "i want you to do dirty issues to me whilst im blindfolded" and i mentioned "truly?" (cos ive wanted to do that to him sort of for a although) and he stated "no" and he wanted me to blindfold him and i stated "cant you do it yourself i really feel weird" and he stated "why is it weird?" and i said "i dont know" so i blindfolded him and i type of played with his hair, stroked his ear and stroked his arms.. so i was undertaking stuff to him not just letting him lie there.. then later he took it off cos his ear got all blocked and then he went actually quiet..
do you feel hes embarassed cos i possibly gave the impression i didnt know what i was doing/was freaked out (i wasnt at all but i didnt do much cos he stated he didnt want me to do dirty stuff)i then said when he took it off "i didnt do something dirty to you cos you stated you didnt want me to" and he said "ahh im jsut messing about" but i did say to him "one particular time i'll give you a BJ liek that" and he stated "yeaahh!"
i feel negative now cos im kind of obtaining the impression hes turned on by being blindfolded and i didnt truly do significantly..the thing is ive wanted to do stuff for him blindfolded for very a long time but have been to shy to say.. and suddenly it just occurred and i was nervous.. also cos when we initial met we both stated we werent into bondage so i was just confused and nervous.. shall i tell him this? hes staying round on friday night (my 18th) when we come residence right here, shall i say to him "can i blindfold you once again?" so i can prove im not freaked out and cos he obviously likes that sort of stuff and id like to do it to him.. what do you think? xx
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